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Sexy Kissing
The kiss is a
stamp of your love. It is a way of showing your love, your care, and
your affections to your partner. While you kiss the tension in
your lip should neither be overtly tight or too loose. If it is too
loose, it will look frivolous and lazy and if you are too tight it could
sense your nervousness and self consciousness.
In a humorous note, kissing is like posting an application at the top
for the position at the base. Don’t look at kissing as a route
towards excellent sex. Kissing by itself is an act of pleasure which may
or may not lead to sex.
Let's look at the basic kiss: See that your lips are moist. You
need to get your lips wet by running your tongue once over them before
you kiss. Stand close to your partner. As your lips get closer,
incline your head slightly to one side just enough so your nose is out
of the way of theirs. See the direction in which your partner is tilting
her head and you can tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Ideally your nose should touch her cheek as your lips make contact.
When you touch the other person's lips and you stretch your tongue out a
bit, your mouths will instinctively open up. Open your mouth slightly
and place your lips gently over her lips. Move your lips in a slow
circular motion or just leave them still and suck the lower lips gently
and succulently.
Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. When you close your eyes
you are concentrating on the pleasure of being intimate with your
partner’s lips. You can look directly at her eyes as you kiss or
break the kiss, but the process of kiss should be savored
with closed eyes as you ‘feel’ the pleasurable sensations with your eyes
closed.
While kissing, you can put one hand on your partner’s waist and
the other against the middle of their back. You can cup her face in your
hands, put them around their waist, put them around your partner’s neck,
hold her upper or lower arms or run your fingers through her hair.
If you are nervous about the first kiss and would like to go for
a ‘care for you a lot’ or ‘miss you’ kiss rather than the erotic
kiss, then you can go for the ‘closed kisses’. Here
instead of opening your lips, you keep them closed. This is also a good
way of letting your partner know that you respect her boundaries but
still you love her and feel that she is one special person in your life.
In the French kiss, the tongue has a more considerable role, than
the lips which is why you part your lips slightly. Once you have started
kissing, you should slip your tongue in hers or vice versa. Don’t
let your tongue go limp but play it around hers or playfully her tongue
out with yours. Push her tongue back into yours and so on. Tongue
wrestle playfully. Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of hers.
Repeat her actions if she moves her tongue differently. Play tango with
her tongue. If she flicks her tongue over yours, or if she thrusts her
tongue inside your mouth, repeat the same action.
The romantic kiss: When your lips meet, keep them parted slightly
and press gently against your partner’s lips. Tilt your head slightly to
one side, so that your nose does not get in the way. The next step is
intention. Give a slight peck on the lips and move away. Don’t move in
haste, drift away slowly all the while holding her hands and look deep
into her eyes.
The passionate kiss: If it is a more intimate kiss, then
linger your lips around hers for a while. Then suck the upper lip and
the lower lip. Again the intensity of the kiss should be decided
by your comfort level. Having tested her lips, you can explore
further-just lick them together and slightly caress the areas around her
mouth or as the sexologists call it, oral region. The kiss value
can be enhanced by devouring a chocolate or any other succulent fruit.
Keep a piece of chocolate in your mouth and keep on transferring it to
her mouth and back again till the chocolate melts and you are madly
sucking each other’s tongue.
The perfect kiss: The perfect kiss starts out slowly and
picks up as you become involved. A good kiss will flow, it does
not stand and it does not end abruptly. Each peck has to be relished and
enjoyed. Each kiss should be gentle and easy. Caress her face or
give a gentle hug. It will be one of the pleasurable experiences you
will have. Lean over to smell your partner’s hair. The moment the tip of
your nose touches her hair, kiss your partner’s head. Gently go
to the ear. Nibble the rim of the ear with your lips and breathe gently.
Purr in her ears. Utter sexy sweet nothings. Switch to the neck. Plunge
into the nape and gently bite the skin there. With a series of little
bites, make your way to the corner of the lips. Lift your lips slightly
away and zero in.
Seal the beauty of your relationship with a romantic kiss and the spark
would never seem to end.
About the Author
Hunter Crowell is a researcher, marketer, and an avid kisser. He
is also the creator of
French Kissing Techniques, a web site setup to help
everyone find useful and accurate information related to being a great
kisser. Visit his site at
http://www.how-to-kiss-explained.com
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