First Kiss

Most of us are so caught up with sex and getting involved in passionate lovemaking that we give too hoots about the first kiss. Quite contradictorily, women pay a lot of attention and attach a lot of emotional value to the first kiss she receives. For us the lips are just an application for taking a position at the base. For a woman, it is the first and the most important step towards lovemaking or an intimate moment. For most women, the first kiss could be the most sensuous thing, even better than sex. So, if you want to make love to her or make her romantically or sexually attracted to you, get your act together to make her first kiss leave a lasting impression on her mind.

We normally associate a girl who is amorous or who has been ‘rumored’ to be sleeping around to be an ‘easy lay’ in the hay. Well often, it seems simpler than actually it is. If you rush it up with her on the first date, then chances you will ruin the entire evening because she wants to be treated like a woman. If this is the case with a woman of strong amorous instincts and sex drive, then you can imagine how much value a complacent and straightforward girl attach to the first kiss which she had read only in stories and watched in movies.

Think of the first kiss as a slow and smooth process. Think of yourself as a smooth hunter on a mission to capture the most beautiful deer in the woods. If you make your move, quickly the deer will be scared out of its wits and flee on its heels. So make your movements slowly and with refined elegance. Women love men in uniform for the simple reason that they appear manly as well as gentle. They appear protective and they look like people who exude patience and take their own sweet time smoothly.

Try to gaze into her eyes and comprehend what she is thinking. Make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Infuse some humor in your talks and spice up with subtle erotic words to tease her. At the same time, ensure that the mood and the entire ambience are romantic. This would mean taking her to a place where only two of you are there and there is ample amount of privacy.

A girl is told right from her childhood to keep away from strangers and their strange acts as well. So if you kiss her fast enough, she is scared and would head towards her home. Add to the amount of criminal atrocities and crimes toward women rising, she has the right to be wary. But since you are someone she knows, half the battle is won. If you are a stranger to her, then you will have to increase your acquaintance and friendship with her. The moot point here, is building the trust level. She must know for a fact that you are not going to ditch her. That you are not going to use her. That you are not going to boast about your sexual exploits to everybody using her as a heroine in after she lets you kiss her. Women love kissing and being kissed. All they want is the trust that you would not leave them down. Of course, the other part is the level of chemistry you have with her and your technique. But trust plays a major part in the first kiss. The chemistry and technique will develop naturally as she restores her faith in you.

For the first kiss, you have to make the first move. Make sure that you smell good and your breath is nice. The perfect gentleman on a date will always floss and brush his teeth before meeting with his princess charming. How do you know when is the right move? You will feel it. Mostly when the conversation stops and your eyes meet, then it is one good moment to give her a peck. She will not back off, if you caress her and kiss her gently. Even if she does momentarily, she will let you kiss again. Bring her in your arms and kiss her. You should ideally not go for the lips. You could try to kiss her cheekbones, cheeks or kiss her hair, ears and then zero in on the lips. When you are kissing her, make sure that she sees that your eyes are closed. When your eyes are closed, she will know that you are not forcing yourself on her and that you are enjoying the moment as much as her. Make sure that you are relaxed and focused on making her feel special. Don’t get caught up in how nicely or how badly you are kissing. Just be with the moment and enjoy the feeling. Also use your hands to comfort her. Caress her back, shoulders, arms and hips. Cup her face or stroke her hair during the kiss. When you are done with the first kiss, give a slight peck on the lips and move away. Just drift slowly away still holding her hands and looking deep into her eyes. This simple and special first kiss is worth its weight in gold for a lady.