Kissing Techniques

The Kamasutra, the treatise on lovemaking says that passion builds up from the kissing stage; the real foreplay is done by lips. If the kiss goes well, it works as an aphrodisiac for both the sexes. Kissing is an art if done well; it triggers a lot of pleasurable sensations in the brain. Good kissing techniques can ensure positive effects on the heart and blood circulation, and moreover the enhanced excitement will strengthen the relationship.

A lot of women will agree that kissing is more emotionally gratifying than intercourse because a sexual experience is momentary but the effect of a kiss continues to linger for hours together, provided the couple’s lips and soul together in unison. A passive woman who does not respond to a man’s kiss signals disinterest in the relationship. If the woman chokes for breath and pulls out in manic, blame it on the man who intends for self pleasure, without allowing a woman to derive any moment. Kissing techniques vary greatly. The best kisses are those that are memorable, but leave you panting for more. Pay attention to what your mate responds to, and what seems to turn her off.

It is important that you do not force yourself on the woman while kissing. In movies you may see a man, in a frenzy of passion lustfully kissing his lady and her getting turned on and lip locking him as well. While you try it by yourself, you will see that it does not work quite well and you could be charged with date rape. Life is not a movie script. A woman’s libido does not shoot up all of a sudden. She does get turned on slowly but surely.

A smooch is the popularized form of kiss but not necessarily the perfect kiss. Her lips are not the only worthy contenders for your lips. Even the back of her neck, her inner arm, her wrist, the back of her knee, her eye brows, the underside of her breasts and the area between them, her belly, there are a lot of areas which are meant for kissing. Since we are talking about kissing, the goal is to enjoy you and pleasure her without doing anything which is uncomfortable to her. Kissing is not a competition for you to shove your tongue down her throat. Nor is it an enduring test for you to keep your lips locked. Vary your kisses. Give a long sensuous deep kiss where you suck her lips and lick her tongue. But at the same time go for softer love bites on her cheek, neck. Graze your tongue back to her lips. Give short kisses to her lips, then kiss her closed eyelids, forehead, and the tip of her nose and then come back to her lips. When you are kissing, hold her face in your hand. Embrace her, run your fingers through her hair and caress her face as you kiss. Also don’t slog too hard on the kiss. Let her also do some work on your lips. If you keep on kissing her, you don’t give her a chance to kiss you. Give sensuous gentle little nibbles on her earlobes and when you are at it, see that you exhale (breathe) a little air. Little puffs of air around the neck and ears could be very arousing and maddening. Be sure that you whisper a romantic compliment or a wicked proposition to her ears.

Some Kissing Techniques to take note of before you pucker your lips

• If you wear braces, don’t press to hard on her lips.
• If you wear glasses, take them off before kissing.
• Smell good. Dab a little cologne or aftershave. Women have a sharp sense of smell. Also they detest strong smelling perfumes and colognes as it is very heady to them. So apply a dash of little male perfume or cologne. It surely works!
• Do not have excess saliva in your mouth when you kiss her. Save the saliva in your mouth for some places which require the wetness.
• If your lips are on the rougher and drier side, use a little lip balm so that they become soft and silky.
• Though choices of women vary in this regard, it is preferable to have a clean shaven face while you kiss. A woman has a lot more sensitive areas on her body apart from just her face where you could love to plant your lips on. So know that you don’t want her face or sensitive areas to itch or be scraped because of your unruly beard and excess moustache. A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad breath. Carry of some mints or gum and have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer one to your partner too. And eat in short intervals.
• Non smokers hate kissing a smoker. It is as repulsive as putting your mouth in an ash tray.
• Don’t go berserk as to bite your partner’s lips or tongue.
• If your partner is uncomfortable with your eyes boring through her during the kiss, you can keep them half shut in deference to her wishes.

Kissing is not so tough and technical as it looks when you read about kissing. Kissing in fact is a way of life and it is quite a simple and natural thing to show your fondness and warmth to your woman.